Showing posts with label Mommy and Brian date. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Mommy and Brian date. Show all posts

Thursday, June 11, 2015

One of the Best Days of my Life...

Dear Brian,

I hope you remember this special day forever. I know I will! Today, the two of us went to see The Lion King. To say I have been anticipating this day would be a giant understatement. I have been waiting for this day for most of my life!!!

I remember when Granny and Pop took me to my first show. It was "Annie" in Philadelphia. I was hooked! Over the years we went to many more shows together - in Philadelphia and New York. They will remain some of my favorite memories with my Mom and Dad. I always dreamed of the day when I would take my own child to his or her first show. I knew I would splurge for great seats so the first experience was amazing...and they'd be hooked, too.

So here we are - I'm finally a Mom with a child who is at an age to really enjoy a show. When the Lion King came to town, I jumped on it and got tickets right away. I planned a special date for just the two of us right between your Kindergarten graduation and your half birthday - two great things to celebrate! 

All week leading up to today I was like a little kid anticipating Christmas. You were excited, too! We had a tiny army here with Hope - Granny and your cousins, Shannon and Claire. This morning I overheard you talking to Hope telling her that we'd both be gone all day...that she should be a good girl and not climb...and that you'd miss her a lot. (So sweet!)

We got all dressed up and headed out after lunch. The whole way down into the city we chatted about Minecraft, friends, Disney movies, architecture, music...you name it! There was a lot of traffic so we had a lot of time. I loved it.

When we got to the Academy of Music, you were amazed. You really appreciate architecture (perhaps that is a sign of things to come!) and loved the ornate features in the theater - especially the huge chandelier. You were also really amazed when we kept walking closer and closer and closer to the front. We were third row, center!! 

The show was incredible (INCREDIBLE!) and you were mesmerized and well behaved and appreciative the entire time. 

You held my hand when you saw me crying a few times and leaned into me with giggles during the funny parts. I was so excited that you loved it so much - the whole experience! I had never seen The Lion King before (except the movie) and I was so happy that we were seeing it for the first time together. 
Brian, I can't express enough how much I love spending time with you. I really do! You are sweet and funny, thoughtful and silly, sentimental and loving. As we made the long, slow walk out of the theater in a sea of people all around us... I felt a soft kiss on my hand that you were holding. As I looked down, you were then holding that hand against your cheek. I could have cried right there. Oh wait - I did. You are just so, so sweet.
Our plan was to walk around the city and find a place to have dinner - really as a way to let the rush hour traffic settle down before we headed home. But you had a different idea. You told me that you thought we should head home so we could eat dinner there. You were worried that Hope was missing us - and that maybe Daddy felt left out. We grabbed some fun snacks for the drive home and enjoyed another long drive talking about the show, the city and how many cars and people there were, more architecture and Gavin. We both agreed that Gavin would have loved the music in the show.

As soon as we got home, you couldn't wait to show Daddy your program and tell him about the show...

And you were so happy to see your sister. The feeling was mutual! 
I taped part of our silly bedtime conversation tonight. Mostly so you could one day listen to me say, once again, that this was one of the best days of my life. 
I adore you, Brian Leong! I can't wait for our next show. (As long as it's close by, right? Ha ha!)

Love,
mommy.

Wednesday, December 31, 2014

Happy New Year!...

It's New Year's Eve!  We spent the day exactly as we like to - together and low key.

Brian and I have had a tradition since he was three years old - a special movie date early on New Years Eve!  Hope and Daddy had some time to bond at home while the two of us went to the Movie Tavern to see the new Annie! 
I was sure to have Brian watch the original Annie movie at home ahead of time, which he loved.  He was really excited to be at the movies - although I'm not sure if he was more excited about the show or pushing a button to call a waiter for more food.  That is a big highlight, even for me!
We LOVED the movie.  A lot!!  And Brian loved getting to order a SECOND warm brownie.  The waiter was very impressed by my date's good manners, I'm proud to say!
A little later in the day, we headed to our local Pizzeria Uno.  Ed made reservations for us to attend their "kid friendly" New Year's Eve celebration.  It was adorable!  Brian got to make his own pizza, which was so much fun for him.
Brian really got into it - perhaps there's a future chef in the house (please, dear God?)!
Great idea, Daddy!!
Hope enjoyed herself, too - watching the boys, eating macaroni and cheese, people watching...
...and getting herself ready to ring in the New Year!
They had a craft for the kids to do and an ice cream sundae bar and then, at 4:00, a balloon drop!
We really whooped it up!
When we got home, Ed and I spent some time in front of the tree taking photos of each other with the kids.  Another New Year's Eve tradition.  I can't explain our traditions - but they make us happy!  Hope is already practicing her New Year's resolution - showing more personality in photos.  Boy, was she ON tonight!!
Can you stand it?!?
And our sweet Brian...
After we got the kids in their pajamas, that's when the real fun began.  I bought a fake sparkler and a fun machine that shows fireworks on the ceiling!  Brian loved the sparkler... 
...and was happily showing off his cool Ninja moves in the dark!
The fireworks were much cooler in person.  I'm just a bad fireworks photographer.

It has been quite a year and, as usual, we have a lot to be thankful for.  We're missing Gavin like crazy, but looking forward to another year of being the best parents we can be for Brian and Hope.  That is the most important way we choose to honor Gavin's life and respect his memory... by not screwing up his siblings.  I hope (and pray) that one day they will read these journals and see just how much we love them and how hard we try - as their parents, as a married couple and as human beings.  Our little family is all that matters, really.  And these two children keep the light on in our eyes.
Wishing you a year filled with people and moments and experiences that make YOUR eyes light up!

Thank you so much for caring about our family... and for remembering our Gavin.  It is still astounding to us that our little boy who never spoke a word STILL manages to speak to so many.

Happy New Year!

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